Have you ever noticed that whenever we are dealing with bad news, a difficult person or adversity better known as drama. We have a habit of constantly reacting in a certain way. I know it may be just me, but have you ever reacted to a situation and once that initial burst of adrenal aka frustration aka fear aka anger subsided you felt like an idiot.
When you get in that overreaction state, you mobilize your ability to deal with the situation in front of you. Ultimately keeping us from getting the results we need. By focusing on the small stuff, we forget the big picture and it's usually the big picture that holds the results we need. By overreacting we isolate ourselves and annoy the world around us. It is that world around us that holds solutions. especially when we are at our weakest point.
Living life as a constant emergency is how so many of us live. That's just exhausting. Always running around like we need to have answers for everything. Like were just so busy solving the problems in our lives. Personally I think some of us need the drama to feel alive but that's another article in itself. Basically our overreacting gets in the way our ourselves and positive change.
When we live life like everything is a big deal, there will always be some form of dram. there will always be a hurdle somewhere. So if you always wonder why you can't find peace, start with not treating everything like it is a big deal. But lets be honest! Peace can only be made when we solve our problems. It's how we deal with problems that give us the skills to deal with them. When we respond to life with ease problems seem that once seemed so big suddenly seem manageable.
Living a softer life can bring new perspectives. It is those perspectives that make us look at life for what it is. A beautiful blessing filled with fortunate and unfortunate events.
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